Thinking tooo much Thursday!

Why is it that when I like someone, that person “helps” find me someone?!?! Ughhhh… This seems to be my dilemma lately.. Okay, so maybe its mostly my own fault? I tend to “like/fall” for someone and then fail to tell them and expect them to hence the flirting/read between the lines… lets be honest, men aren’t always the brightest bulb in the bunch.. they gotta have it said to them straight up not shaken and even then the chance of them “getting it” can be pretty small!

I don’t know.. maybe just maybe I am just great at being a flirt and great at just being friends with folks..

Topic Switch… I need an Ice Cold Beer!!!!!

That’s it for today..


Welcome to my world of crazy AKA— My Thoughts…

Good morning!
First off, I am doing this because mainly I get bored and when I am bored that’s when I do most of my thinking. Some of my thoughts aren’t always the greatest and then there’s the thoughts that just take me away into like a dream type world..  I don’t know how well I will do at this and its mostly for my own good. Kinda like a “diary” but if it gets read, that’s okay too! I WILL RAMBLE, rant, praise and complain… My sentences might run on and on and might not even make sense at times.. but I promise, I won’t bore you!
Okay, so today’s thoughts that have me extremely puzzled are and are not limited to… Lol..
Why is dating so complicated?
Are there really even rules on this dating crap anyways?
Why do people get  upset if you “friend-zone” them?
Isn’t the “friend-zone” a better place to be anyways?
If I miss someone, why can’t I just tell them?
If love is so hard to do, why is it a #1 goal for most people?
Okay so I am BIG on quotes! I love them, I pin them, save them and over use them! You will most likely read 1 or 2 quotes within my blogs, just a heads up =:) One that I feel really pertains to this is:
“A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he MUST see her. A man who is just playing around- or confused about his own feelings- will find an endless number of excuses why he didn’t show up. “
~Charles J Orlando
As humans, we make time for the things/people/moments that are truly the very most important to us! I don’t think dating would be so “difficult” if people were honest, open, upfront and forthcoming with their wants/desires/intentions.
I am so guilty of “friend-zoning”. I’ve been hurt to many times and in some really horrible ways. For me, its easier/safer to just go ahead and look at any “nice/friendly” guy as just that; a friend! I think about this more and more everyday. How, I really do want to be “in-love” with my “best friend” and all that happily ever after crap.. but lets face it- at the rate I’m going, that’s furthest from what will really happen. Then there are times that I think ” wait, if a man really does want to be with me, he will be patient and understanding with me”. ” I mean why is there such a “rush”? ” A rush to the bedroom, a rush to the alter, a rush to the grave??? Slowwwww down.. Yes, time is ticking but have you ever sat in a place where you wanted time to rush by and the clock sat real still? It can be just like that, if you stop the rushing.
I was once told that ” you are a person that is In-Love with being In-Love!” .. that took a while to make sense to me. I get it now and the one person that spoke that to me was so right! I mean, every single part of being in-love with someone excites me! I like the snuggles, laughs, joys, cries, ups, downs, highs, lows. All of it! I am ready and I want it all but then my feet get soooo cold! I over analyze everything! From the tone, manner, voice, wording, body language and facial expressions. I am an ass to the very fullest and suck at this “love thing” that I so longingly want!
Okay to some up my very 1st “BLOG”….
You attract exactly what YOU are!
The law of attraction states that  This means that people with a low frequency — people who are insecure and self-abandoning — <b>attract</b> each other, while people with a high frequency — people who love and value themselves — also
If you want to attract a sweet honey bee- you gotta be the HONEY!!! Otherwise you’ll be the horsefly and attract shit!  =:/